Eating a tasty hamburger restaurant American style Yard House, not only gives you the opportunity to enjoy a wonderful views of the Long Beach Pier, California. But also, immerses you in a noisy bustle of young people and countless races and styles.
In such a diverse environment like this, gives one to think that not all cultures experience the jealousy in the same way and with the same intensity. But in Western civilization, this feeling is linked to certain behaviors and intimate situations a partner should not do, in theory, with third parties.
Lunch or dinner in a restaurant as Yard House is, definitely, one of those things that should not be done alone with anyone other than our partner. Perhaps the situation is completely harmless, but many romantic relationships They resent things like that.
The restaurants: a special intimacy
The restaurants, whether in California, NY, Barcelona or Madrid, They are spaces that invite enjoyment by every way. They appeal to the gregaria need ancestral of the humans, to unite to hunt and to share food. In this ritual tribal strengthening and consolidation involving feed together.
Contrary to what may happen in a cinema, the place designed for romance par excellence so far, Restaurants are moving their target beyond offering simple menus with food to fill the stomach. Today at a restaurant you are getting an experience, with an empathetic service, accompanied by a decorative and environmental assembly capable of transporting another dimension. The last place I now would like to see a quote from our partner with an ex.
For a moment in a restaurant is something to share, especially, with our partner. Because, It is normal for our soulmate do not take it very well if, for example, we traveled to NY and not We shared her experience dining in the Mr Purple while we contemplate the skyline World's most mythical. Or if being brought to Buenos Aires iLatina an old couple.
Casual versus intimate
Some sociological studies, especially one made by Kevin Kniffin and Brian Wansink, ensure that jealousy in the couple trigger much stronger if one of its members discover that the other has been to lunch or dinner in a restaurant with or ex, that if, for example, learns who have gathered for coffee.
The key seems to be to meet in a cafe, in the morning or early afternoon, It is something much more casual than cited for lunch or dinner. These last two options are much more intimate and are considered potentially most dangerous for most couples. Behind the fact an appointment at a restaurant seems to underlie the desire enjoy intimacy, some privacy and complicity, with music, lighting and certain atmosphere.
In a restaurant, codes of conduct are different to a café, as it is often the purpose for which we turn to each of these establishments.
The results of that study have a double reading. Reserve a table with a companion who is not our spouse, It is harmful to a relationship, but do with it can increase the levels of romance and connection.
The question both a restaurant and partner relationships, is verbalize our wishes, say what we want, what we like and do everything possible to get it. At a time when many people seem content to let some things remain in a state of uncertainty for months or even years, to us to define.